“I’m so nervous”

It’s such a common response from many of my first time clients that they are super nervous about the idea of even considering having a sensual connection Massage with me. Many of my clients have professed that it took them months sometimes years to pluck up the courage to send me a message or an email to even ask about what is involved in the sessions. I generally respond acknowledging these feelings and also relating to them.  When I made my first booking for a Sensual massage I was really nervous and put it off for quite some time. I also like to mention that many of my clients give me feedback, after their first session, that they wish they had known how beautiful and wholesome and connected they felt before during and after the session and they might have started on this journey and embarked on it sooner.

Erections definitely come and they go. Unlike what porn tells us where the cocks are super hard all the time! Having been in massage “porn” myself and editing my own content I know that I cut around the footage to create the most enticing and stimulating images for the viewer. In my shoots there are plenty of times where a talent goes off to the side and goes and gets hard again before we start rolling. So I’m aware being a porn creator that what I’m creating in regards to content is actually something that might be not helping people like myself feel comfortable with the idea that they are not hard all the time. So yes Im both in the solution and part of the problem. I always occilate between two worlds in all my affairs.

I was having a lovely chat after a session with a client other day. We were talking about how nerve racking can be to book a session with someone you haven’t met before. I concurred, as the times I had booked massages I felt very nervous about meeting this new person and then getting undressed in front of them...

A lot of people come to me and say they’ve always wanted to live out a fantasy of what it would be like to have one of these clinical experiences become a little less clinical and a bit more sensual. I

Sensual massage was something that only arrived by accident one day. A client had asked me whether or not I did Sensual Massage and I asked innocently “what is this?” He was a sensual massage therapist himself and he gently showed me and explained the theory behind it.

Many people have commented that they feel like they have known me for a very long time after each treatment and I take this is an extreme compliment. I live a very transparent life and I enjoy sharing my inner world with others. I feel that the very brief and intense connections that I have with my clients is an experience that I would want to feel if I was connecting with someone.

These sessions are about delving deeper into what makes us tick as sensual and sexual men. Asking questions about the narrative we have been assigned all our lives and questioning whether that narrative is who we are or who we have just acted out because of our lives stories up till this point.