I’m so NERVOUS about a sensual massage
“I’m so nervous”
It’s such a common response from many of my first time clients that they are super nervous about the idea of even considering having a sensual connection massage with me. Many of my clients have professed that it took them months sometimes years to pluck up the courage to send me a message or an email to even ask about what is involved in the sessions. I generally respond acknowledging these feelings and also relating to them. When I made my first booking for a Sensual massage I was really nervous and put it off for quite some time. I also like to mention that many of my clients give me feedback after their first session that they wish they had known how beautiful and wholesome and connected they felt before during and after the session and they might have started on this journey and embarked on it sooner.
Through my own experiences of reaching out to others and the anxiety that I felt, I try to create a space that really honours those feelings and also diminishes them with my experience of offering unconditional love and connection in my space.
It can be one of the most gut wrenching things to do when you have been in a space where you haven’t felt confident or attractive or lovable for awhile. Reaching out to someone like myself can feel vulnerable and touch (literally and figuratively) all of those sensitive parts of yourself . The most important thing for me in a session is that vulnerability of my clients and making sure that it is both honoured and perhaps talked about and then also diminished.
Whenever we sit down and chat before a session I like to use this part of the session as a way to settle nerves and talk about the things that you’re nervous about and fearful of. I’m studying to be a therapist so my interest is two pronged in my clients. I’m a trained massage therapist and have worked tirelessly to make sessions that are both physically and emotionally rewarding. And now with insight around emotions and traumas and other deeper elements that my clients come with, my sessions are becoming more multifaceted and have a deeper meaning to my clients and in turn myself.
If you have ever thought about embarking on any journey that includes sensual touch or intimacy or maybe it’s your first time with another man…or it’s your first time with another man after a very long time in a partnership or if you are in grief or loneliness or sadness or confusion…I believe these sessions can be the launchpad to give you confidence to embark on the next phase of your expanding journey to find in a peace internally with external pleasure and connection.
